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Apr 19Liked by Alisa Kennedy Jones

Wow. That's just... wow. Maybe he can give that Sister Wives dude some pointers. So glad I'm no longer wading in the Dating Pool and have to deal with shit-sticks like this dude.

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Indeed, give me my books, my Britbox and my jammies and I'm set!

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Apr 19Liked by Alisa Kennedy Jones

Jammies!! YASSS! And a comfy chair (or the bed, preferably, in my case)

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Apr 2Liked by Alisa Kennedy Jones

Thought that you of all people would appreciate the 2023 Tech Bro Briefs by Waterfield - https://www.sfbags.com/pages/april-fools-day

You'll have to scroll down just a bit.

Enjoyed the description.

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That is hilarious and you SO know he would wear those! πŸ˜‚

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I salute you for making Lysistrata into a verb.

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Apr 1Liked by Alisa Kennedy Jones

I have no idea who this guy is. Now I must google him.

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Oh my goodness... he's in all the US self-help-y circles, but I must say Alicia called it this last year... she had him dead to rights!!!

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Mar 30Liked by Alisa Kennedy Jones

I called this the very first time I heard him reference love and sex on his podcast (something to do with the neuroscience of attraction), and HOO BOY do I love to be right about shitty men! For the record I support *ethical* nonmonogamy. This guy's behavior should ever after be referenced in academic journals (and all other relevant literature) as the OPPOSITE of that. Whatever happens between consenting adults blah blah blah, but it's the fucking insane amount of duplicity, y'know? Like, how the fuck can we trust this guy on any subject knowing he's capable of such dedicated, exacting, deliberate lies? Not looking forward to his inevitable upward fail. I'm calling it now: he'll publish a bestseller about relationships in the next 18 mos. At the very least he'll land in a commercial for condoms or Viagra or whatevs!

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EXACTLY: "it's the fucking insane amount of duplicity, y'know? Like, how the fuck can we trust this guy on any subject knowing he's capable of such dedicated, exacting, deliberate lies?" How can I even believe you about eyeballs or the weather?

I too am not looking forward to his inevitable upward fail either and even if the women get their first with a book deal, series, etc. their narrative frameworks tend to disempower them as dupes as opposed to the clever girl detectives who pieced it all together. Sigh.

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Mar 29Liked by Alisa Kennedy Jones

OMG this is so funny as one of my girlfriends sites Huberman all the time and sends me links. I just read your article to her and she was incredulous. He's a "ho!" We were laughing and she had never heard a word about it. Just another man "ho." ha ha ha. good to know.

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Just Another Man Ho... Bahahahahaha... that should be the TITLE of his comedic, self-deprecating apology memoir to ALL women. And he should have to give the money to a women's charity like I SUPPORT THE GIRLS or The Women's Institute for the Future!

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Mar 29Liked by Alisa Kennedy Jones

I saw this about him. He’s an insult to the doofus. I can think of a couple of other d words for him. Even so what he does in the closet, the bedroom is none of my business. As long as he’s not a pedophile or rapist.

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Oh, AGREE... and I make a whole LIST of things that are none of my concern, this d-bag is #1--unless he's trying to date my daughters or any of my single girlfriends. #2 is when members of the GOP get peeved at each other and start skirmishing like alley cats. #3 is my body mass index--since the accident. And #4 is my star chart. I'm not against it, I just don't have the mental energy to be walking around remembering what time I was born. I was there... but things were kind of hazy, doll! 5:15-ish, final answer! xo - I hope you are feeling better and wish I could drop off soup!

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Mar 29Liked by Alisa Kennedy Jones

Considering myself lucky that I'd never heard of this creep before! Reminds me of the "Dirty John" series and hoping none of his victims caught anything incurable. We need a registered predator program for these types.

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Seriously. A Google spreadsheet like the bad men in advertising. And how much wasted time and hope when you think you've found "your person"--to find four others just like you in the hotel lobby???

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Mar 29Liked by Alisa Kennedy Jones

Another mediocre white guy disappoints. Imagine the arrogance of someone who requires that much female attention, and manufactures this amount of scheming and deception to get it. I hope he gets canceled, but I'm sure his sycophant bros will keep gassing him up.

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Ugh, I just rolled my eyes so hard, both retinas detached πŸ˜‚

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